Wednesday, March 15, 2017

A story about how our Father in Heaven and Christ are there to lift us

When we have trials, do we realize that we have a Heavenly Father, and Savior Jesus Christ who can help us through our trials, and rescue us when we feel like we are drowning?  Here is a story about a woman who came to realize that.  

"When I was eight, my parents divorced. My dad and I had always been close. At the time, I didn’t realize how hard it would be to not have my father involved in my everyday life. And it was difficult to come to terms with the fact that my dad would not be there to baptize me or participate in many other important events.

Seven years later, there were still times when I would sit to write something about him in my journal, but the feelings of love and sorrow were so strong I couldn’t. It was awful being that completely miserable.

During the 1999 April general conference, Elder Jeffrey Holland’s talk about the importance of a father really struck me. As I listened intently to Elder Holland, my eyes filled with tears. I felt the Spirit surround and comfort me. I realized I did have a father who is always here for me, my Heavenly Father. I was embarrassed that my stubborn thoughts about living a fatherless life were blinding me to the fact that Heavenly Father was waiting to be my support and friend.

Often when we are faced with one of life’s many trials, we focus on the negative effects it has on our life, I was using my parents’ divorce as a reason to be unhappy.

I realized I was drowning in a sea of self-pity, hoping for some miraculous change to come. But I eventually realized that the only way things would change was if I changed. Hardships are what you make them become: a never-ending problem or a chance to learn and grow. As I prayed and grew closer to my Father in Heaven, I realized that I was learning and growing. What a comforting feeling it is to know that when I kneel down to say my prayers, there is always someone who is willing to listen to me and help me. Both my mortal father and my Heavenly Father live far away, but One can hear my silent pleas for guidance." (Carrie Schaffer, Always My Father, New Era, May 2005)

May we ever have faith that our Father in Heaven and Savior Jesus Christ are there for us, to strengthen and lift us and to lift us when we feel like the weight of the world is upon us.  

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1 comment:

  1. just as hagar was hardened against god so we can be too but through her son god got through to her